Does anyone have a PWP who shows no apathy, no appreciation for ANYTHING, hatred towards ANYTHING that annoys them - including their own kids? I have made it clear that I'm in this for the long haul, but he has go to meet me halfway. Three years ago, he attempted to kick me out of my own house and actually saw a lawyer about filing for divorce. He went off the deep end. Even his neurologist told me he was not thinking correctly. I was able to pull him to "shore" but things just haven't been the same since. I constantly have a fear of him doing it again because he is so unpredictable. He constantly tries to fix me. He wanted me to lose weight, I lost weight (I am not obese by any means, but could lose a few pounds like anyone else). When the weight wasn't an issue, then it was I worked too much. Well, I have to work like I do to supplement the fact that he doesn't. When work wasn't an issue, it is him constantly yelling at our son with learning disabilities. In other words, it's always something. This short paragraph doesn't even start to cover what I deal with on a daily basis. Nothing or no one is ever good enough for him. My kids and I are literally bending over backwards walking on eggshells to make sure he isn't inconvenienced in any way. Divorce is not an option for me, but the constant worrying and not knowing what is next is exhausting. I just don't know what else to do. I love him dearly and we've been together for 19 years this month. He is on an anti-depressant. I just don't know what else to do.