I am having to move due to financial issues. I am now on SSDI and I do get dependent care on my kids, but it's not near enough to live on where I am currently. I did find a HUD income based apartment in another town about 90 miles from where I am now. Surprisingly it's very nice.(unfortunately they won't let my wife work because I need 24hr monitoring because of falls and seizures)
So because of this my stress levels are off the roof! And my wife who is used to me taking care of all these types of things is pushing me to the breaking point! I don't think she understands that stress is a major problem for those with PD(it also makes my Lupus flare badly) And the brain fog/mush/memory problems are really exacerbated by this as well. I feel like my mind and body are about to completely shut down and I am going straight to the place where I can weave baskets and wear that nice dinner jacket with the buckles up the back!
I am not sure how to make my wife understand that it's not that I don't want to handle all this, it's that I can't handle all this.
Any ideas on how to make her understand?