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I haven't posted much but here is a good one.

one friend seems to be suffering from a lot of confusion he is taken 16 25/100 plus others ,doctors have not tried rytary or DBS.

My recommend was tirate drugs down till the mind clears.

The unit has good intentions but lacking a good doctor



One was doing ok ,started having  thoughts of his wife being unfaithful.he ended up divorced and later put in a assisted living,

I tried to persuade him to look at the meds for the culprit.


Another friend is not doing very well since he was put in a locked unit .He also had thoughts of infidelity .I saw neglect at the unit but was barred from seeing him.No help from state who over see this stuff.

I don't believe PD can do this but more likely meds not administered correctly can.

What does one do,just watch this unneeded decline.?


personally in my case I haven't found a nero or MD that really knows how to administer these drugs .So I have relied on word of mouth here and through others to manage PD.I know there are competent doctors but where????? lol

In my experiment with comtan I have improved much .Thanks to the contributors here and elsewhere.


We have to keep a eye out for others and of course keep ourselves  healthy and out of harms way.


Hope you all have a Happy new year



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How kind of you to visit your friends and extend your limited energy for them. It's not easy to feel helpless and watch others decline. I'm really sorry you are experiencing this.


I agree drugs confuse the issue and they should look at reducing to see if it helps. I also agree not every doctor understands how to manage PD. We trust research and case studies will bring relief and hopefully a cure. Until then, we endure, observe, and keep swimming until we reach shore.


DH and I've decided to only use l dopa. When that fails...it fails...and we'll reexamine. I don't recommend this for anyone and I am not a doctor. It is our choice. Every drug I've used in addition to l dopa has caused something...from hallucinations, sleep apnea and personality changes. As we advance, we may choose differently.


You ask what we can do to advocate for your friends. You can make authorities aware. State and federal elected officials can help. You can pray for them. Then, as your book directs, you have to accept your limitations. It is hard...so.hard.....but a part of life.


John, you are a good and caring man. While you are frustrated and this is painful for you, be grateful you retain empathy and your heart continues to feel for others. Do what you can to help...then accept yourself.


I wish you well....BTW, the book John always refers to is great and provides incite on how to control emotions and temperament...without drugs. Highly recommend it.



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Oh that's hard.  One thing you can do, is ask to speak to the social worker at the homes.  They won't be able to tell you anything (confidentiality), but you can inform them of your concerns regarding the meds and the lack of a specialist.

Good Luck.

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